Hiiii Guys... :)
Here's a must read message for all of you...! ;-) :)
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WHAT i WAS SAYING...
Stop begging for attention if you feel neglected by your man. Don’t disturb him if he spends more time with his friends and doesn’t care about your feelings. Let him be if he has more important things in life than spending time with you . Don’t be emotionally worked up if he doesn’t text you or call you to talk to you when you are missing him. If he thinks you are worth it he will find time for you no matter how busy he is. If he loves you and misses you he will express his feelings to you. If he deserves you he will make efforts to keep you in his life. If he needs you he will stay and if he doesn't need you let him go gracefully.
We may try hard to hide our feelings but we can’t hide our “real” feelings for long… sooner or later these “real” feelings are seen in our actions… in our eyes… and everything we do… We may not express them in words but our eyes will always say how we feel, when we come before the ones we love…!!!
To all the guys who think that love is a synonym of sex. Remember that loving a woman doesn’t mean taking her to your bed for your physical pleasures or to fulfill your sexual fantasies. Loving a woman means respecting her ethics and values. Loving a woman means honoring her desires and being her best friend. Loving a woman means supporting her and cheering her up during her low times, bad days and cherishing her in every possible way. And last but not the least don’t love a woman just because you lust for her body. Try to see her inner beauty because actually loving a woman means touching her heart and soul to the core and treating her heart as if it is your own…!
The worst thing a man can do to a woman is to play with her feelings, fiddle with her heart, toy with her emotions, misuse her and then dump her to leave her shattered and wounded forever just because he has another woman in his life…!
So... You are in love when you feel like you are on a roller coaster ride every time you meet him and your heart wobbles when he looks into your eyes. You are in love when you feel anxious, excited, thrilled, curious and impatient all at the same time. You are in love when a missed call from him gives you goose bumps. You get butterflies in your stomach when he sends you a text message. His voice makes your heart sink to your belly. When you feel that his presence makes you feel ecstatic. When you just want to cuddle together, laugh together and tell each other random jokes and funny little stories. You are in love when you think about someone from morning till night, every single minute and every single second of the day and you want to spend the rest of your life just loving him. And you feel like WOW with him...!!! Love is that exciting!!!!
Don’t look for perfections when you fall in love. Fall in love when you are ready to embrace flaws and imperfections. Fall in love when you are ready to be vulnerable. Fall in love when you are ready to sacrifice, when you are ready to share all your passions and dreams. Fall in love when you are ready give your all…!
Thank You Gannu Ji…. You never cease to amaze me…. as I look back on my life and honestly look at the times that have brought me to my knees… I am so truly thankful to be in a better place that I was back then. At the time I felt so hurt and lost but Gannu Ji, I trust and believe that You always lead me to better place and to a better me…. but this amazing change can only comes to be when I let go of me… and allow You to lead the way..!
In all honesty, I am not a saint. I am die hard romantic. I want to be loved back equally in return. I just want someone to belong to everyday. I want to be someone’s priority and his first call .I want to be someone’s reason for waking up, someone’s reason for going through another day. I want somebody who’ll care for me passionately with every thought that crosses his mind and every breath he takes..I want someone who’ll pursue me and follow me to the ends of the earth and woo me so that I cant resist him anymore. I want someone to be crazily, madly, insanely and deeply in love with me. I want to be someones everything..I want to be someones forever…That’s all I’m asking for…!
Sometimes while moving on with life, we don’t know what to do next… we got stuck in some problems and can’t see any way out… That is the time to leave yourself in the hands of God… He will lead you, and will take you out of it… have faith on Him and put your problems in his hands...! :)
