RELATIONSHIP......!!!

''Relationship....''

When its new.. both lovers feels an excitement.. a flow of romance.. lots of loving 'n pleasure moments..It all feels awesome...'n heavenly...!
 

Then few months or years later..

This excitement fades away..

One partner still deal it patiently..

He/she still keeps on loving..caring with the same intensity..

And yes.. feeling hurt.. because of cold responses from the partner....... !!
 

Few days passes by.. then comes a stage where the one who was putting efforts ,starts to give up..
because his/her efforts seems useless..!

The love 'n care seems to get lost somewhere....... !!
'n finally it comes on the verge of breaking up..
not bcoz of misunderstanding but bcoz of ignorance of each others feelings... !!! </3
 

Dear guys 'n gals :-
Relationship is not about caring in the beginning but loving each other more 'n more with each passing day.. its not about never fighting but with how less time you both take to forget the fight 'n love back...!
Both need to put in some efforts because, a relationship is for two people... not just one sided sacrifice..!
Don't lose someone who loves you so much.. just because of OTHER PRIORITIES IN LIFE...! ( ._.)

SOMEONE..........!!!

When you talk to someone.. you hardly know in the beginning, and eventually find out everything
about them. They’re not so much of a stranger anymore, but now the one you've got so close to.
You can’t help, but let your guard down and let them in because you got attached to them. Soon
enough, they mean a whole lot more to you than ever thought they would.
Then it all falls apart.

Everything feels like it’s going to hell.

Pointless fights, arguing about nothing that will matter later on, but you still do.
Pretty soon, you two grow distant from each other. As time goes by, less and less words are exchanged.
You get to the point where it feels like you don’t even know who you’re with anymore. Then you
break up, and never say a word to each other ever again. 

Like you two never even met.
 

The only thing is, we did meet. 

We became apart of each other and our lives. 

And now look at us,
we’re at the point.. where we can’t even look each other, eye to eye.
The only difference between when we first met and now is that...

I have these feelings for you.

Feelings that don’t really affect me anymore, but they’re still here.
Feelings that remind me of what we used to be. 

Now you’re just a stranger to me again. 

One that I happen to care about now.

SECRET WISHES OF A GIRL....!!!

I want someone I can go to..

Someone.. to tell my secrets too.. 

Someone who won't judge me for the mistakes I've made, for the mistakes I will continue to make..

Who would understand me..

Who would listen to me, not just hear.

Who would say good-night 'n good-morning to me..

Who would know me better than I know myself..

Who would wipe my tears away..
Who would need me..
Who would love me for being me...!

I want a guy...
Who will show me off..
Who will tell me he loves me..
Who can't keep his hands off me..
Who would say the sweetest things..
Who would give me hugs infront of his friends..
Who would miss a football match on TV 'coz i was upset..
Who would make me feel like the only girl in the world..
Who would tell me I m beautiful...even when i feel awful..
Who can make me smile, even when tears are streaming down my face..
And..

MOST IMPORTANTLY...

Someone who will never give up on me..

'N would love me.. for the person I really am.....!!! (^_^) 

TRUE MEANING OF 'LOVE'.....!!!

Guys....

»»» If You love Her because of her eyes, lips or body,

Its not "Love" ... Its "LUST".....!

»»» If it is because of Her intelligence or insight about life,

Its not "Love", its "ADMIRATION".....!

»»» If its because she cries every time you try to leave her,

Its not "Love"... Its "PITY".....!

»»» If its because she makes you forget to study 'n sleep,

Its not "Love" ... Its "INFATUATION".....!

»»» LOVE is...

*When you don't know why you seem to be attracted to a person.

*When the heart sees what's invisible to the eyes.

*When you really can't explain how you feel about him to him, 

  But you can Explain it to yourself........!!!

Love has its reason 'n that reason is UNKNOWN...!!! :)

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Dear Boys,

Just because you know.. a girl will wait for you..Don’t make her...!
Just because you know you don’t have to chase her...You should...!

Just because you've never called her beautiful, doesn't mean its too late to start...!

Just because she loves you even though you yell at her, doesn't mean you shouldn't stop...!

Just because she will love you no matter what, doesn't mean you shouldn't treat her like a princess..

Because one day, your girl, is gonna realize she deserves better...

'n She will find the guy that knows how to treat her right...

So don’t waste another minute man.. get up.. and save your relationship.... !!! :)

And always remember....

In life, we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unkept promise, an unheard request, an irreplacable loss, an unreachable dream & an unforgettable love...

Still life is about being happy anyhow.

BCoz everything in life can be summed up in just 3 words :
"IT GOES ON" ...!

So... Guys... Without wasting a single second....

Treat her like shes more than you want.. more than you could ever dream.. 'n more than she thinks she is... like shes everything you've ever wanted.. make sure you speak to her sweeter 'n love her deeper....!

Be true 'n be kind...! (^_^)

She's more than just a girl... She's an angel without wings...

She's the sweetest thing in the world 'n is more precious than a thousand roses...!

Girls Never frown because you never know...

When someone is Falling In Love with your smile....! :)

Let her know.. you care...!

Let her know.. by doing something special for her...!

Call her everynight just to make sure everthing is alright 'n to remind her, you still care...!

Always wish her the sweetest dreams...!

When she cries, let your shoulder be the first.. she rests her head upon..!

And hug her tightly, letting her know that shes not alone...!

When she laughs, let you be the first to hear her...!

When shes down, help her laugh...!

But.. most of all... Guys...when you tell her.. you love her... let her see that true love 'n trust in your eyes... that you are always with her 'n will never let her go...! No matter what happen..........................!!!!!!!! :)

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Dear girls,

Have you met all the guys in the world?
No....NAAH... !!!!
There are guys out there, who care about you, are madly in love with you, will treat you right..

But you're too pushing them into FRIEND ZONE.

And when... that one guy... screws you over, you either blame love, or either you start believing that all guys are jerks.

They're not.... Love doesn't walk away, people do...!!!

And so what if one jerk broke your heart, I BELIEVE... that not every single guy will.

Open your eyes 'n realize that there are guys.. who want you..

But don't go after you before you're too busy chasing the bad boys.. the jerks...!

Or you expect to fall in love that way they do in movies.

Where.. it's love at first sight, or where the guy throws rose petals every where his girlfriend steps.

That's not the reality.

He can't think about you 24/7, he can't open every door for you,

he can't hold your bag all the time, he can text you goodnight 'n good morning every day, 

But he's not going to be perfect.

And if you expect him to be perfect, then it's you.. who is not ready to be in a relationship. 

So before you go on and say,"all guys are the same"...

Just remember, that many people in the future will break your heart too..

But.. one day you'll find the guy who was worth all those heartbreaks.

The guy who will treat you right...!

He might not throw rose petals everywhere you step,

But he'll hold your hand 'n be by your side through the hardest times.......!!! :)

JUST BE YOURSELF.....!!! :)

As long as you keep being YOU, as long as you keep staying
true to yourself and the passions that move you...

It doesn’t matter.. how many jobs you get or don’t get,

how many mistakes you make,

or how many times you have to pull a u-turn.

None of it matters.

What matters is that you’re living in your truth....!

The people who need you.. will eventually find you – the real you.

And you will find the people you need.

You will find the answers you need.

But more importantly, you will find the questions..

you would have never thought to ask..

and your heart will know the answers...that really matter... !
Don't hide behind a mask to keep other people happy.
Do not let anyone put you down or treat you less than you deserve.
Be yourself - and Love being YOU.
Because when you embrace your own light, you will shine - no matter what darkness comes. 

You will emerge stronger - with the right people beside you............!!!
Have Faith, and never give up...........................................................!!!